Counseling for Affairs & Infidelity


The betrayal and trauma of infidelity or an affair in a relationship is one of the hardest roadblocks you may ever encounter in your relationship. Even if it seems impossible right now your relationship can heal. Data has showed us that infidelity is the second most damaging relationship problem. Unfortunately affairs and infidelity are much more common than people talk about.

When an affair has been revealed (regardless if was emotional, sexual or both) it can be traumatic. It’s not uncommon to have extreme feelings of anger, loss, betrayal and guilt, as well as disorientation and mistrust regarding the future of your marriage or relationship.

There is still hope for your relationship even if it has experienced infidelity or an affair. At Compass Whole Health we will help to support and guide you through couples counseling to address the infidelity or affair. Our goals often include:

  • Relationship boundaries
  • Identify the vulnerabilities that contributed to making the affair possible
  • Understand why the infidelity happened in the first place
  • Rebuilding trust in each other and in the relationship

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General Enquiries

Healing & Recovery from Infidelity or an Affair

It takes time to heal from an affair. This often happens gradually, and in stages. It will be important to fully grieve the loss of the original relationship and begin to build a second, stronger new relationship.

Through our Affair & Infidelity Counseling services, we’ll guide you and your partner to greater well-being within yourselves and your relationship.

We will assess your struggles and strengths together. It’s important for us to help you learn the skills and techniques you need to re-establish trust, safety, and commitment in your relationship. We’re confident you will learn to cultivate the inner strength you need to once again engage in your deep, loving partnership.

Contact us today if you and your partner are experiencing an affair and feel couples counseling could help you navigate the journey toward restoration.

Couples Counseling Services we Offer

Frequently Asked Questions

Compass wants the therapeutic process to be transparent, so you know what to expect, and feel comfortable. We understand that talking to someone new can bring up feelings of fear and uncertainty for some, so we hope that these questions ease those feelings and bring a certain level of readiness and comfort to seeking help with any one of our therapists at Compass Whole Health.  Check out some of the frequently asked questions in the list below.

If your question isn’t answered here, give us a call at 360-558-7730.


Counseling for affairs and infidelity is tailored to each individual relationship. We work together to determine the best fit for you and your relationship needs.

You can expect the first two to three sessions to be more of an assessment of the relationship. Depending on your goals we then formulate a plan of action and can establish a more specific timeline to meet those goals.

Our address is 7017 NE Highway 99, Suite 206. Vancouver, WA 98665

Directions From I-5 Northbound

  1. Take exit 3 to merge onto NE Hwy 99/Main St toward Hazel Dell
  2. Merge onto NE Hwy 99/Main St
  3. Continue to follow NE Hwy 99
  4. Pass by McDonald’s (on the left in 1.0 mi)
  5. Destination will be on the right

Directions From I-5 Southbound

  1. Take exit 4 for NE 78th St
  2. Keep left at the fork to continue toward NE 78th St
  3. Slight left onto NE 78th St
  4. Turn right onto NE Hwy 99
  5. Destination will be on the left

Please enter through the back of the building (East side) of the building.

Parking: Free parking is available in the Collins Plaza where our offices are located at all hours. We are located inside the Collins Plaza, just minutes from I-5.

ADA Accessible: We are an ADA accessible office. If special accommodations are necessary, please do not hesitate to ask when you are scheduling your consult.

Our set front office hours are Monday thru Thursday from 9-5 and Friday from 8-3. Our therapists work by appointment only, and each therapist sets their schedule. To make an appointment or for additional information contact our intake line at (360) 558-7730.

Call 360.558.7730, or email us at, to request an appointment time with one of our amazing therapists or counselors.

Our front office staff are very knowledgeable and are available to answer most questions you might have about therapy and/or counseling.

We do accept most major insurances for massage therapy and counseling services. Please contact us today and will gladly check your insurance benefits.

At Compass Whole Health each of our therapists have a specific expertise. When you call or email for an appointment, our front office staff will discuss with you the best therapist to fit your needs. We strive to make sure that your experience is the best one from the first time you walk in our doors.

Compass is dedicated to having only the best therapists and counselors in the Portland, OR and Vancouver, WA area. This translates into you having the best therapist and counselor.

If you have any other questions, please contact us

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